What if we only have one child? Thinking about all the things we are going to do with this little Lima Bean and thinking of how much we already love our baby how can you imagine having another? I'm getting asked a lot of questions about how many kids we want to have and how long until we get pregnant again. Why would someone ask these questions? I'm not even done with this pregnancy yet. How can you expect us to know when we will get pregnant again if how can you assume we will get pregnant again.
There are many that are not in the loop as to the issues I have had during this pregnancy. The details I have shared are not full details. When I am asked if I am okay I give the generic "I'm just tired" or "I am doing great".
What is wrong with a simple family of 3? I see nothing wrong with it. The looks I get are started to get to me. They sting. Why are people so judgmental? Why do we have to have a big family?
We are not sure if we will have a second. I think it is to early to decide. We love this baby. Why would we already be thinking of another when this one hasn't even made it's debut?
Am I being to sensitive? Am I overreacting?